In some cases, the Law Of Attraction does not work! WHY?
Well, this is a good question. And it is crucial to find the right answers.
Obviously, there is something different in the behavior of successful people. This difference has nothing to do with education or efforts. Therefore, people exist who even are known for their laziness on one hand, but are reaching all of their goals easily on the other hand. The top of this "Injustice of the Universe" is that the Universe seems to treat this as if it were fair. Most people don't understand this fact, because they are educated to feel and behave differently. This education took place somewhere along the way. We are taught in maths, ethics, foreign languages, etc.
Unfortunately, nobody ever taught us in understanding and using the "Language of the Universe". It's a matter of fact, that the most successful individuals are grown up with being successful. They have ever been successful during their whole lives. Being successful started in their earliest childhood. Okay, a lot of them might be more intelligent than others, but there are a lot of highly intelligent people failing in their lives. Such intelligent people are not even able to earn their daily bread; and their standard of living is below the level of some dullard's living standards. What happened to make such intelligent people fail? What makes them fail in the trial to use the Law Of Attraction?
Different factors are possible to explain these failures. However, psychological factors are probably the main reasons for such failures.
Back to the Roots
Every child is born rich! Even if its parents are poor. A child's richness consists of curiosity; lust for life, discovery and experimentation; and positive expectations. Nothing is negative. All seems to be positive for a child, even if it is mistreated. It accepts the surrounding conditions, and therefore, it feels happy as long as it does not know better conditions. The first sensation of agony occurs with the first sensation of having a choice.
This is a cruel theory, and you may decide not to accept it. But I think it is crucial for surviving that children are free to accept the conditions surrounding them, whatever they are. Only the ability of contemplating them in a positive way makes them able to feel happy and attract more of them.
Unfortunately, this can lead to a very bad life as well, if the positive attraction is directed at being mistreated, for example. (I'm regarding the extremes.)
Making a decision means giving up something in order to get something other.
Little children normally are treating this issue easily. They have no problem to forget one toy and take another. They value the joy they get with this new toy as a successful acquisition and memorize it. And then they want such positive sensations again and again, without any feelings of loss or nostalgia. As long a child doesn't feel nostalgic as it is successful in getting all it wants.
A very successful man once told me, that he never felt nostalgic. He valued "nostalgia" as a foreign word.
Somewhere along the way, a child starts to measure. The base of this measurement is built of its own experiences and education. Patterns are developed to control any decision unconsciously. What, if a child once memorized a negative experience with a new toy? It probably will get sceptical about new offers. When growing up, it will possibly develop a certain blindness to any new chances and miss successful sensations. In worst cases, depression and anxiety may follow a long sequence of unsuccessful sensations.
If you are on such a wrong track you might not be ready to use the Law Of Attraction in the right way. On the other hand, the knowledge of these Laws of the Universe should prevent you from keeping up your inconvenient conditions. This knowledge should encourage you to change your point of view! This is not quite easy. Changing the own point of view means to start with accepting all bad conditions and but for all that feeling happy.
This is the hardest part of the lesson! It's looking like self-deception. It is the most reason of failure in using the law of attraction. In realizing the reality of your bad circumstances, you cannot be able to use better manifestations. You can even not develop them. It's your subconscious mind that will destroy all your good wishes and efforts. It only didn't when you were still a child without any negative experience memorized.
There is a hope!
In order to get free from bad experiences, you really should manipulate your subconscious mind. I don't want to push you to become a liar or lying to yourself, but I want to give you the example of a person that reached all their goals by doing exactly this:
Miss Channel, one of the most famous fashion designers of the world had a very bad childhood. The conditions surrounding her were as dramatic as you can imagine. But she never complained about them. In contrast, she slipped in her own fantasy world of dreams and happiness, telling all the people, that she was always loved and grown up like a princess. Lying to herself, ignoring the bad truth was crucial to survive and to start the life she ever dreamed of. She made it as real as she never were lying. She only could do this because she believed it without any doubt. Her subconscious mind was persuaded. And she never harmed anybody by living her lie.
But look ahead! That does not mean, that each lying person will be successful in living a life of freedom. Some perfect liars may end up in jail. I'm sure you can see the difference.
Conclusion:
As you can see, it is not easy to discuss the question why people are failing in using the LOA. Each person may have its own blockages while trying to build the right manifestations. The good message is: You can learn it! You can learn to avoid all the mistakes that may guide your destiny the wrong way. If you ever intend to make the Law of Attraction working for you, be sure to get informed how to use it properly.
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